You are not doomed to failure, you are destined for greatness!
Take that in.
Breathe those encouraging words in like a fresh breath of ocean air.
Feels good.
"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."
-Jeremiah 29:11 (NIV)
God has plans - HUGE plans - that will blow you away! These plans will plow over any dreams you have ever had. These plans will lift you up, make you feel good, anchor you in something and someone greater than yourself, set you on the highest pedestal of love and honor, bring a smile to your face, and just basically wrap you in the arms of your Father in Heaven.
But that verse never said that all of his plans would be plans you enjoy.
True, you will not be harmed, but your feelings might get hurt. Your faith may be shaken. Your finances may go to pot and you may end up on the street. I can assure you that when you follow Christ you take on a life that is constantly - CONSTANTLY - being toyed with by the enemy.
But from this struggle comes HOPE and a FUTURE! We are like gold purified through flames (tell me you haven't heard that before). Flowers can't bloom without suffering torrents of rain. You can't find true love without getting hurt first. You can't be whole without first be empty or broken.
You might be thinking. "how could a LOVING God be so cruel to me? Why must I endure all of this hardship?"
That is the classic complaint and America's greatest problem with God. He isn't fair enough. He isn't politically correct enough.
God is a jealous God! And He has a right to be! He desires and deserves all of your praise and then some! You can't be saved without first being lost. So look at your past. What did He do for you? What did He drag you out of? What did he wipe away? Aren't you glad it's blood-bought and over with? Then praise him! That's the whole point.
"How could he be so cruel?"
He understands that most people will only love on him when the going gets rough. So He allows the going to get rough that you might get down with the enemy and fight for your life and then come crawling back to God - all beaten and bruised - to say, "I NEED YOU! I CANNOT DO THIS WITHOUT YOU! THERE IS NO POINT TO LIFE WITHOUT YOU! I GIVE YOU THE PRAISE BECAUSE I LOVE YOU AND I NEED YOU AND I NEVER WANT TO BE WITHOUT YOU!"
Then....
Like the first chirps of a blue bird back from his winter hiatus.
God shows up and your problems quickly slither into the shadows of the world!
In order to get the good things God has for you, you must endure the attacks of the enemy and you must worship God through it all. It will be hard and difficult and you may have moments of such terrible weakness that it is physically exhausting.
But you will not be harmed, and if you can make it and keep the faith then God will bestow upon you the blessings of a bright future and hope for greater things!